Spouse Cheating? - 21 Ways You Can Tell - Signs of Infidelity

If you’re serious about finding out whether or not your spouse or significant other is cheating on you, there are 21 ways you can tell. Knowing what to look for is the key. Familiarize yourself with the 21 areas of concern in which you can find numerous signs of infidelity. Listed below are 21 areas of interest, which apply to cheating women as well as cheating men. They correspond to the 21 major categories of telltale signs covered in Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs.

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE - A cheating spouse will suddenly become preoccupied with improving his or her appearance in some way to make themselves look more attractive. There are at least 76 different changes in wardrobe, grooming habits, and personal attire which can indicate that your spouse having or planning to have an affair.

HOW YOUR SPOUSE RELATES TO YOU - If your spouse is cheating on you, his or her involvement with someone else will cause him or her to treat you differently in over 70 different ways.

CONVERSATIONAL CLUES - What a cheating spouse chooses or refuses to talk about can be a sign of an extramarital affair. New people, places or things crop up in their conversation, while others are no longer talked about. There are some 70 conversational clues you can listen for, that will alert you to the presence of an affair.

WORK HABITS - Working late is a common excuse cheating spouses use to cover their affairs. But that’s only one of the 39 work-related telltale signs. Other changes in your spouse’s work habits can be indicative of a possible workplace affair.

DAY-TO-DAY BEHAVIOR - Most people follow a set routine each day. But a cheating spouse will deviate from their normal daily routine in at least dozen of 92 different ways. These deviations are important telltale signs.

FINANCIAL AFFAIRS - Affairs cost money. A cheating husband will wine and dine his mistress, entertain her and buy her flowers and gifts. A cheating wife will also buy her lover occasional gifts and spend more money than usual to keep herself looking good. These are just a few of the 52 financially-related telltale signs.

TRAVEL - A cheating spouse who travels frequently can carry on an affair far from the sight of prying eyes. The 27 travel-related signs of infidelity include personal or business trips which occur more frequently or last much longer than usual.

PERSONALITY OR BEHAVIORAL CHANGES - If your spouse is cheating, you can expect to see changes in their attitude, personality or behavior. There are 36 changes in this area, ranging from obvious to subtle, which can expose a cheating mate.

ABSENCES - Since there are only 24 hours in a day, a cheating spouse must steal time from other activities in order to be with his or her lover. Their absences will start to become more and more noticeable in 39 different ways.

TELEPHONE TIP-OFFS – Cheaters have to communicate with their lovers, and they usually do so by phone. Countless cheating spouses have been exposed by one or more of the 76 telephone tip-offs of an extramarital affair.

CAR CLUES - A cheating spouse’s car can contain a wealth of telltale signs. Between the glove compartment, car seats, tire well, visor, ashtray, floor mats and other nooks and crannies, there are a good 40 signs of infidelity that a knowledgeable spouse can find.

SEX - Changes in the frequency or quality of your sex life together can indicate an extramarital affair. . If you spot any of the 37 sex-related signs of infidelity, start practicing safe sex. You could be at risk for HIV/AIDS and other sexually- transmitted diseases.

EATING HABITS - This is the most overlooked category of telltale signs. A cheating spouse’s eating habits can be influenced by his or her lover in 31 different ways. For example: the cheater may develop a preference for the kind of food their lover likes to eat.

SMELLS AND TASTES - Everyone has a unique smell or taste which goes unnoticed until replaced with something else. The 21 signs of infidelity associated with smell or taste include kisses that taste different, or something in your home or car that just doesn’t smell right.

INVASION OF YOUR HOME - When a cheating spouse invites his or her lover to their home, there will usually be some evidence of their presence left behind. At least 22 different telltale signs of a lover’s visit could turn up in various areas of your home.

GIFTS - Cheating spouses often exchange gifts. throughout the year. Be especially alert for one of the 19 gift-related signs of infidelity on or around Christmas or Valentine’s Day.

COMPUTER USE - Finding several of the 30 computer-related signs of infidelity could mean that your spouse is having an online or internet affair. People often underestimate cyber cheating since there’s usually no sex involved, but it can seriously undermine your marriage.

CELL PHONES AND PAGERS - If your spouse uses a cell phone, pager or similar device to call, text message, or otherwise communicate with their lover, the affair can be exposed in 28 different ways.

PHYSICAL EVIDENCE - Many times, physical proof of infidelity is just waiting to be found among a cheating spouse’s personal possessions. Check pockets, purses, wallets, closets, tool boxes, jewelry cases and desk or dresser drawers for signs of infidelity. You’ll be amazed at how many of the 32 kinds of physical evidence you can find.

THEIR BEHAVIOR AROUND THE OPPOSITE SEX – Studies have found that cheating spouses usually have affairs with someone they already know -- a neighbor, co-worker, or family friend. The way they act in each others presence will give them away. But knowing what to look for is the key. There are 71 signs of infidelity in this category which can help you identify the Other Woman or Other Man.

There are 57 kinds of slip-ups or disclosures that can accidentally expose a cheating spouse - a slip of the tongue, a careless mistake, or the cheater’s failure to cover their tracks.

LOOK FOR CLUSTERS OF TELLTALE SIGNS - Signs of infidelity rarely appear in isolation, so don’t conclude that your spouse is cheating on the basis of one or two telltale signs. Where there’s one sign, there are usually dozens of other corroborating signs just waiting to be found. If your spouse is really cheating, you’ll find clusters of telltale signs all at once, from several of the 21 categories above. Knowing what to look for is the key. For other important information about cheating spouses and signs of infidelity, send for the FREE tip sheet entitled 10 Things You Probably Didn’t Know About Signs of Infidelity E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with the words “10 Things-w” in the subject line.

KNOWING WHAT TO LOOK FOR IS THE KEY - If you’re not sure what signs to look for in each of the 21 areas above, a good infidelity reference book can help. Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs is the only book that lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. There’s a entire chapter devoted to each of the 21 categories of infidelity signs. To order your copy for $29.95, click here. For more information about infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com

Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs. Ruth has been quoted in USA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times and numerous others, and has been a guest on The Today Show, CNN, Fox News, NBC News, and over 320 radio and TV shows worldwide. For more information about infidelity, cheating spouses or extramarital affairs, visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com or Ruth’s blog at http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com To interview Ruth Houston, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com