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What
People Are Saying...
...Because of depression and marital problems, I have been attending sessions with Jay for several months now. During the course of these sessions it was determined that these problems involved our whole family. My daughter began attending sessions with Jay, both by herself and along with me. Both of us have gained valuable insight to our problems, both personal and together as a family. Jay has taught us how to communicate better and to deal with our problems with a more positive approach. We still have a long way to go, but we both agree that we would not have been able to work through our problems without Jay's help and support.
Jay Harper is a very caring person with great insights. She leaves you with the feeling that you are a great person even in impossible situations.
I have known Jay Harper for 24 years, first as Teacher/Student, then as Teacher/Student Assistant and then as Counselor for my son, who was going through a difficult period in his life. Jay helped me grow as a person during my teenage years and did the same for my son during his time of need. In helping my son, she helped me to see things more clearly in my interpersonal relationships, helping me to improve myself while helping my son. I have enjoyed our relationship over the years.
It is hard to put into words the ways Jay Harper has helped me. With her I managed to stop and explore some deeply seated issues and feelings that needed to be brought to the surface. Issues and beliefs that had caused me a lifetime of sadness and struggle. She provided a safe environment in which to recognize, name, and transform these issues. Without criticism or judgment, she guided me to a healthier, more whole, sense of who I am. With her encouragement, I was able to change directions in my life, and to learn to accept my past, with love and forgiveness for all involved. I would not be where I am now, mentally and emotionally, had it not been for my well-spent time with Jay.
With a fundamental understanding of human nature, Jay Harper was helpful in addressing relationship problems in my life. Resolving the specific problems lead to a plan for my life, which of course, helped in all facets (financial, mental, etc.) of life. I am a 53 year-old engineering consultant.
I could never have managed my adolescence and severe conflicts with my parents without Jay's help; she taught me how to love myself first, and my family and others unconditionally. Thanks a lot.